संकेत जो बताते हैं कि आप एक-तरफा प्यार में हैं

प्यार करना हर किसी के लिए एक अच्छी भावना है लेकिन ये भावना तब काफी दुखदायी हो जाती है जब इसमें केवल एक-तरफा प्रयास हो। एक-तरफा प्यार करने वाले लोगों को निराशा के अलावा कुछ हासिल नहीं होता।

किसी के साथ प्यार में होना एक खूबसूरत एहसास है लेकिन एक-तरफा प्यार में होना आपको केवल दुख ही पहुंचाता है। जब आप किसी से एक-तरफा प्यार करते हैं तो यह आपको केवल कुछ समय के लिए उत्साहित करता है लेकिन उसके बाद आपको निराशा का सामना करना पड़ता है। आप जितना भी उस इंसान के दिल के करीब जाना चाहते हैं उतना ही वह आपको अनदेखा कर देता है और आप फिर से अनजान हो जाते हैं। ऐसे ही कुछ संकेत हैं जो बताते हैं कि आप एक-तरफा प्यार में हैं। अगर आपको ये संकेत दिख रहे हैं तो बेहतर होगा कि आप भी किसी और में अपना प्यार ढूढ़ें।

पहला संकेत:  आप जब भी ऑनलाइन होते हैं तो उस इंसान को सोशल मीडिया पर स्टॉक कर रहे होते हैं। आपको उनके प्रोफाइल को देखने और उनके दोस्तों की सूची को चैक करने में दिलचस्पी होती है।

दूसरा संकेत: आप देर रात भी उनका स्टेटस चैक करते हैं। जिस इंसान से आप एक-तरफा प्यार करते हैं उसके रात में ऑनलाइन होने पर आप सोचने लगते हैं कि वह किस से बात कर रहा है या रही है। इससे आपको दुख भी होता है जिससे पता चलता है कि आप पर उस इंसान का जुनून सवार है।

तीसरा संकेत: 

हर रोज सोते वक्त आप अपने तकिये को गले लगाकर सोते हैं और उस वक्त आपके दिमाग में उसी इंसान का ख्याल होता है कि वह क्या कर रहा होगा या वो भी इस समय आपको याद कर रहा होगा या नहीं। आप उस इंसान को लेकर दिन में भी सपने देख रहे होते हैं।

चौथा संकेत:  आप जब भी उसे मैसेज करते हैं वह आपके मैसेज का जवाब नहीं देता। जब आपको पता चलता है कि वह इंसान आपको छोड़कर बाकी हर किसी के मैसेज का जवाब देता है तो आप उदास महसूस करते हैं।

पांचवा संकेत:  उस इंसान की अस्वीकृति के बाद भी आप इस उम्मीद में रहते हैं कि वह आपके लिए वापस आएगा। आपका दिमाग सोचता है कि उस इंसान पर केवल आपका अधिकार है।

छठा संकेत:  आप उसके दोस्तों से उसके बारे में बात करते हैं और जितना हो सकता है जानकारी जुटाने की कोशिश करते हैं और जब आपको सवालों के सही जवाब नहीं मिलते हैं तो आप परेशान हो जाते हैं। 

10 Signs a Woman May Be Interested in You

10 Signs a Woman May Be Interested in You

There are some signs and behaviors that for men aren’t obvious concerning female interest in us. We all like to think that women are interested in us. How can we be sure? Often a man is doubtful or uncertain about approaching a girl, or maybe doesn’t know what a girl is feeling, so he might act with more caution.

• Spontaneity . Our brain is designed to recognize a fake smile and a spontaneous one. If she is constantly smiling, or laughing openly, those are signs she is enjoying the moment or that she is happy at least for that moment. Spontaneous laughter and sometimes nervous laughter can be interpreted as signs of interest. We are more likely to like someone that is smiling than someone angry or serious.

• Physical contact . If a woman touches your arm, touches your clothes, or rests an arm on you it’s a sign of approach Physical proximity and body language that shows openness is a sign that she is approachable. Don’t waste it!

• They agree with us on everything . When a woman likes someone she will find ways of agreeing and complimenting you, this may seem occasional or explicit, depending on level of confidence.

• They are watching you, or trying to catch your eye . If you catch women watching you, giving you the look, or notice she is looking it might be a sign that she found you interesting, or at least appealing. That doesn’t mean that you have it all, just a green light to be more confident.

• She is playing with her hair . Women often comb, touch, or caress their hair. Its something they do automatically, 20% its a biological function to attract others.

• They pose with poise! If a woman is sitting beside you she might cross her legs several times or adopt a seductive pose. They might try to sit straight or use better posture, showing their natural attributes.

• They face us . When a woman feels attracted to someone she will bend slightly toward the person, approaching their face. Women like to speak directly, and the axis of the head-face-eyes is a fundamental sign that a woman is attracted to us.

• Slightly distanced feet . Research shows that when a woman stands her equilibrium tells us what emotion she is feeling. If both legs are tight, stiff, or unexpressive their passion isn’t evident. If legs are slightly open, or if she is playing with her feet or ankles that could be a good sign.

• She will remember details . If a woman is interested in you, even though she might seem distracted, she will remember personal details about you, or about your stories.

• They are not afraid of proximity . If you approach her with a kiss, a caress, light touch, or you touch her hands and she seems comfortable and at the same time nervous, that’s a definite good sign, at least for that day, you might be lucky!

7 Things Men Really Want In A Relationship

We have often written about how to impress women and what they, now its time we talk about what men like and need in their relationships. Men are often reluctant to discuss things they need emotionally and prefer to be quiet and suffer inside, but as a wonderful partner you probably want to know what your man really needs from your relationship. Here are some obvious needs for men:

• Appreciation

Men often complain that their partners don’t appreciate them or say what they like about them. The term ‘male ego’ is famous, and as a partner you must take care of your man’s ego. Praise him and appreciate his effort, efficiency, love, and sexual prowess. They really love to hear how good they are in bed. Most men don’t require constant appreciation but when something is good why not just say it and improve his day? Keep telling your man about his good looks, gestures, and whatever you like about him.

• Communication

Often women feel their men should get their clues or hints to find out what’s missing or bothering them, but men actually need good communication to know these things, and will rarely get your clues. Lack of communication leads to disappointment in women (as to why he is not getting any clue) and irritation in men.

• Live your own life

Men want their partners to have their own life and keep their own identity. This does not mean they don’t love you or are not interested in you, they will support you in your activities and plans. Have your own set of friends, goals, activities, and passion. You must have a life which is going to surprise your partner every day in a happy manner.

• Good $ex Life

This is one of the most important things a man desires in a relationship. If you are a woman who satisfies your man’s desires he will remember it always. Keep your man happy and he’ll keep you happy in return.

• Respect

Mostly men command, not demand, respect. This is a basic factor in a healthy relationship, you should respect your partner for what he has been doing for you, your relationship, and your family. He should feel his efforts are being acknowledged by you. Hardships will always be there but you should learn to conquer them together.

• Games Free Relationship

Most men don’t like being manipulated. They expect their partners to know how to be treat someone with respect. A relationship free of mind games or blaming games lasts longer. Take care of the fragility of your relationship and trust the man you chose. This will help them trust you, love you, and respect you as well.

• Comfort

Last but not least – comfort. In their busy stressful life men want some peace, which they expect from their partner. They want to feel comfortable and relaxed when they are with you, which will help relieve their stress. This is about being in touch with them emotionally, men do have emotions although they may not show it. They get strength from you, so you should be supportive.